Friday, January 23, 2009

Reality- depressing post beware!

Well, I'm sort of feeling a little wierd lately and I'm in the mood to post. However, I'm not going to go on about how everything is going great, because honestly, it feels like it's not! :( sometimes motherhood is surprisingly lonely and right now i'm having one of those piteous moments. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? you know, when your dishes are piled up, the laundry is overflowing and your house smells because you haven't taken out the trash in a few days (dirty diapers included) and you could definately use a shower! It's adding up for me and it's kind of surprising actually. Who would've thought that being at home all the time would actually get boring and taking care of your baby (cute baby i might add!) is actually monotonous and lonely because she sleeps so much and never talks back. Does ANY one want to have a girls' night, or a girls' day for that matter!!!!???????
Please, don't misunderstand, I'm so grateful to be able to have a daughter and be at home with her. I really don't have much to complain about, but once in a while i need to... so thanks for listening....whoever you are!

8 comments:

angela jones said...

Yessss definitely need to get together. OH! That reminds me, Hiba Issa (from elementary school) and I were planning a "Dilworth Elementary" reunion and it was planned to be on Jan 31, 8pm at a bar (since that could hold everyone who wanted to go) called The Piper. So, I hope you can come to that, but if not I get it since its in salt lake.

But for our church girls we should start planning. What do you want to do? Would you be able to travel to salt lake or should we plan going up to Ogden? It would be pretty fun to see your baby! We could watch a movie together or something, what do you think?

Nate & Mandi said...

Chels! Of course we need to do a girls night!!! I work 9-5 now, but you could totally come up or i could come down or something!

Elise said...

Hey Chel, i'm sorry your lonely! You guys want to do something tonight of tomorrow night? May Sunday Dinner. Is Jeremy pretty busy?
LOve you Chel

Kimmie said...

Oh Chelsey, I know what you mean and I wish that I was there for you! bill told me some news today - is it true?

nateandmaryannmendenhall said...

Chelsey. I know how lonely it can be to stay home all day. Cal me and you came come down for the day. We are knidof boring around here but I guess we can be bored together.

GustoBones said...

Being a SAHM mom can get very lonely and mundane at times. Tonight I looked at my bulging hampers and it dawned on me that I can't only do the laundry one day a week like I used to do. Sometimes I swear all I ever do is the dishes. You are not alone in your feelings. There will be some harder days mixed in with the good. I wish I were there and we could go out to lunch!

amberjill said...

sounds like it's time for another baby! hahaha jk i think every mom has been there! it only gets better! sounds like you need to get outside. (if the air quality is ok that day!) bundle that baby up and go for a walk. i think you'll be happy you did!

ashlan said...

thats the story of my life. You need to get a play group in your neighborhood together, it does wonders. Also I don't know if you like to do projects on the bottom of my blog are a few sites of fun blogs ideas, thats what helps me when I'm down. I bust out the sewing machine and make something fun. This week is baby legs for Ken.